Perhaps an impartial view is best? The glass is neither half full or half empty; it just is.
No matter how you see your glass, it is yours to do with as you wish. You can choose to drink from it and savour the contents, or empty it and fill it with something else, or add something to it to make it more interesting.
Your 2019 New Year glass is here, and there’s one thing it’s full of: potential.
Forget the fireworks and hoopla of January 1—all new things begin in September for me. New school years, new projects, new group activities—September is kick-off time for all that. After allowing myself to go fallow in the hot, humidity of an Ottawa summer, I surge with new energy in the cooler autumn Canadian temperatures.
If you surrender to the wind, you can ride it. ~Toni Morrison
As I start my new year and you start yours, lets surrender to the wind and ride it. I can’t wait to see where it takes us.
“Don’t cry because it’s over.
Smile because it happened.
The December page of my kitchen calendar bears this quote from Dr. Seuss. I grimaced when I read it because, for me and many of my acquaintances, 2011 is a year well left behind.
As 2011 progressed, challenging event piled on top of challenging event. The spring, summer and fall blur in my mind. Every day was a balancing act of deciding which pressing matter to deal with and which to neglect for another day. The steady sequence of one thing after another and the relentless pressure baffled me. I even considered consulting astrological charts to see if there was some explanation from beyond in the planetary alignment in the heavens.
I thought it was just me.
But then I started to hear it from my friends. Time after time I heard, “I’m looking forward to New Year’s Eve so I can put 2011 behind me.” So many people I know faced unusually difficult health challenges, losses in the family, or unwelcome job changes in 2011. It was a crushing year for many people.
We want to do the opposite of what Dr. Seuss advises: cry because it happened, and smile because it’s over.
This goes against my optimistic personality. I don’t want to wish my life away. So I will have to seek and find the positive that came out of the events of 2011. And I can do that, for personal growth comes out of the trials and challenges in our lives. I’ve learned a lot.
It’s easy to take Dr. Seuss’s advice not to cry because it’s over; I am so very glad that 2011 is behind me. It’s a little harder to smile because it happened. But I will tilt my mind in that direction. Challenging as it was, I’m a better, stronger person now.
Happy New Year, and may 2012 bring many blessings and personal growth in only small, manageable doses.