Thinking greater than we feel

happy-endingSuccessful people achieve their goals by never accepting that things are going to stay the same way they are now.

When I read biographies or autobiographies of people I admire, I find that as a consistent theme. Every person I now see as special, or heroic, or powerful was ordinary. The people who now get the best seats in restaurants or invites to celebrity parties used to walk down streets unnoticed, were once fired from jobs or rejected from sports teams. Every one of those people, at some point in their lives, was made to feel “not good enough.”

They didn’t buy it.

In their mind’s eye, they saw their lives as greater than what they were at the time. Oprah Winfrey, a poor, black abused child, always felt that a special destiny lay before her. Steven Spielberg was rejected from film school, but he persevered with the image he had of himself as a film director. Elvis Presley was told he should go back to driving a truck.

In Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New OneDr. Joe Dispenza writes: “. . . if we cannot think greater than how we feel, we can never change. To change is to think greater than how we feel. To change is to act greater than the familiar feelings of the memorized self.”

Many of us get stuck in accepting what is and what other people tells us should be. It’s just easier that way.

But if “what is” or “what other people tell us what should be” doesn’t fulfill us, then something needs to change. If we persist with harmful habits or lazy approaches, we don’t serve our best interests. Dispenza adds:  “And when you really see what you’ve been doing to yourself, you have to look at that mess and say, This is no longer serving my best interests. This is no longer serving me. This has never been loving to myself. Then you can make a decision to be free.”

What do you want to be, where do you want to be, or what do you want to be doing a year from now?

Form that image in your mind, think greater than what is now, and today start one new habit that serves your best interests.




5 thoughts on “Thinking greater than we feel

  1. Stress Bubbles

    So true. “Success” is often the result of hardship, because hardship drives many of us to work much harder and helps us develop the courage and tenacity to reach goals. Also, as you’ve implied in this post, “success” takes a great deal of hard work and dogged determination. It’s rarely if ever an overnight acquisition.

  2. Pingback: Weekend reading: September 6 edition >> a peek inside the fishbowl

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.